September 22, 2014
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I read several dozen stories a year from miserable, lonely guys who insist that women won’t come near them despite the fact that they are just the nicest guys in the world.

I’m asking what do you offer? Are you smart? Funny? Interesting? Talented? Ambitious? Creative? OK, now what do you do to demonstrate those attributes to the world? Don’t say that you’re a nice guy—that’s the bare minimum.

“Well, I’m not sexist or racist or greedy or shallow or abusive! Not like those other douchebags!”

I’m sorry, I know that this is hard to hear, but if all you can do is list a bunch of faults you don’t have, then back the fuck away.

Don’t complain about how girls fall for jerks; they fall for those jerks because those jerks have other things they can offer. “But I’m a great listener!” Are you? Because you’re willing to sit quietly in exchange for the chance to be in the proximity of a pretty girl (and spend every second imagining how soft her skin must be)? Well guess what, there’s another guy in her life who also knows how to do that, and he can play the guitar. Saying that you’re a nice guy is like a restaurant whose only selling point is that the food doesn’t make you sick. You’re like a new movie whose title is This Movie Is in English, and its tagline is ‘The actors are clearly visible.’

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— David Wong, 6 Harsh Truths That Will Make You a Better Person (via gaywalker)

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September 21, 2014

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September 21, 2014
gracedchin:

SMASH THE PATRIARCHY Flower wreath by Grace D. Chin
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We’re trying this again! Here is the latest c:

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SMASH THE PATRIARCHY Flower wreath by Grace D. Chin

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We’re trying this again! Here is the latest c:

September 21, 2014
l0ser-z:

I LUV DIS TO THE ENDS OF THE PLANET I WANT IT

bloop! just in case:https://www.etsy.com/listing/201858207/all-bodies-are-good-bodies-crepe-paper

l0ser-z:

I LUV DIS TO THE ENDS OF THE PLANET I WANT IT

bloop! just in case:
https://www.etsy.com/listing/201858207/all-bodies-are-good-bodies-crepe-paper

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September 21, 2014

gracedchin:

I’ve been watching this video a lot, especially when I’ve gotten sucked into a shame spiral, worrying about what I could be doing better, & rehashing past failures.
It’s really refreshing to see someone like (actual goddess) Beyoncé owning her imperfection/humanness, but not in a way that feels disingenuous (i.e. the classic “I’m such a down-to-earth klutz. Other women can relate to me!” bit that Hollywood is so fond of). Most of all that she says that no one is immune to failure. Somehow, hearing/watching that is enough to make me feel brave again and to stop worrying and go to sleep.
Hope it helps someone else too!

September 21, 2014

congenitalprogramming:

tayelchapo:

this why they killed him

Wasn’t enough of a puppet.

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